Having friends is underrated

[Alexander]

As i walked a bit through the neighborhood yesterday , i couldn't help but remember all the times i hung out with friends at those specific locations some years ago. It's really making me regretful for never pushing myself to keep those friendships or making new ones.

It's no wonder i've ended up an introverted 22 yo virgin. As i aged i only became even more insecure and i seem to have a goal to avoid responsibilities and friends apparently fits that. It's incredible how i let myself go , it happened so fast , so easily , I'm not sure i could have foreseen it

Friends keep you self actualized , when you see them achieving something big , you want that for yourself and you strive for it. By removing everyone around me , there was no one for me to draw inspiration from and well...I don't even have a drivers license.

How would i even go around making friends again? Reconnect with older ones and hope i get to meet some of his? But how would i fare hanging out again with people my age nowadays with 4 years neet , zero social media presence and zero money...And the more time passes , the worse it gets

 

[hopelessAspieNEET]

I can be your friend

 

[Based Vampire]

As i walked a bit through the neighborhood yesterday , i couldn't help but remember all the times i hung out with friends at those specific locations some years ago. It's really making me regretful for never pushing myself to keep those friendships or making new ones.

It's no wonder i've ended up an introverted 22 yo virgin. As i aged i only became even more insecure and i seem to have a goal to avoid responsibilities and friends apparently fits that. It's incredible how i let myself go , it happened so fast , so easily , I'm not sure i could have foreseen it

Friends keep you self actualized , when you see them achieving something big , you want that for yourself and you strive for it. By removing everyone around me , there was no one for me to draw inspiration from and well...I don't even have a drivers license.

How would i even go around making friends again? Reconnect with older ones and hope i get to meet some of his? But how would i fare hanging out again with people my age nowadays with 4 years neet , zero social media presence and zero money...And the more time passes , the worse it gets

people don't like to hear it but sometimes there are simply no options left. Thats the fate of a neetcel...

 

[404Errorcel]

They say its easy to make friends but everytime i try to go up to someone and talk to them they want to get away from me as fast as possible.

 

[Asylum Patient]

Although male friendship is basically a meme, I still would like one buddy to hang out once or twice a month. Would be more than enough socialising for me, don't need more.

 

[dungeondragon]

True friendship should definitely be treasured. Have seen my mother struggle with loneliness - felt helpless. Seems to have found some people though, luckily. I dread getting to my 30s and 40s. Whilst I enjoy solitude now, I'm sure shouldering the world alone for years on end will start to take its toll. What to do.

 

[Kpwat]

I have a Ninja Turtles game with 4 players multiplayer. But I don't have 3 other people to invite and play together.

 

[Solitude]

Yeah it is. I really miss having friends.. I hate having autism

 

[Quarantined]

problem with friends is they may say something to a stranger that pisses the stranger off but you have to defend your friend against the stranger which could get you killed.

 

[Karder]

Nostalgia is brutal boyo