anon1822
Banned
- Apr 5, 2021
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I think these questions are paramount to happiness. Well, not happiness, nobody is really happy. But having goals, having something specific you want from life is very important.
I don't know how to answer them tbh.
I'd love to just say "I just don't want to work, I want to relax all the time and do what I want.". But that's not realistic at all. You have to be born rich to be able to live like that, very few can.
So what do I really want? What are my goals? I've given up on trying to find a job I'll like. My arduous research has taught me that there is no such thing, at least for me. I'll never find a job I like. Money isn't my goal either. Money takes hard work, luck, discipline, determination, willpower. And I just don't care for money enough to sacrifice so much for it. I don't want a wife or kids either, that's never been something that I desire, and it's the antithesis of my desired lifestyle, since a wife/kids require so much energy and effort and work and time. Another possible goal that I could've had was finding a deep passion and gaining mastery over something. But after several years of research, I've eliminated that possibility as well, since my brain just doesn't like anything, and I'll never like anything to the point it could be a passion.
So what the hell do I realistically want? I guess that's my problem. Any of my possible desired goals aren't realistic at all, like wanting to live a life of leisure and not working. I don't have any goals or wants that are realistic. Any realistic scenarios for my life are such bummers, such unpleasant paths that I don't want to take. Ohh well, wagie life for measly wages awaits me. Groovy.
I don't know how to answer them tbh.
I'd love to just say "I just don't want to work, I want to relax all the time and do what I want.". But that's not realistic at all. You have to be born rich to be able to live like that, very few can.
So what do I really want? What are my goals? I've given up on trying to find a job I'll like. My arduous research has taught me that there is no such thing, at least for me. I'll never find a job I like. Money isn't my goal either. Money takes hard work, luck, discipline, determination, willpower. And I just don't care for money enough to sacrifice so much for it. I don't want a wife or kids either, that's never been something that I desire, and it's the antithesis of my desired lifestyle, since a wife/kids require so much energy and effort and work and time. Another possible goal that I could've had was finding a deep passion and gaining mastery over something. But after several years of research, I've eliminated that possibility as well, since my brain just doesn't like anything, and I'll never like anything to the point it could be a passion.
So what the hell do I realistically want? I guess that's my problem. Any of my possible desired goals aren't realistic at all, like wanting to live a life of leisure and not working. I don't have any goals or wants that are realistic. Any realistic scenarios for my life are such bummers, such unpleasant paths that I don't want to take. Ohh well, wagie life for measly wages awaits me. Groovy.