Serious The problem with trying to be NT/ socialize

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Abi No

Hi
Nov 26, 2020
781
You're forced to become someone who you really aren't, socialisation is based on deception and hiding your true self in favour of society standards. You're put in a position of faking how you feel, what you believe, how you behave so people will tolerate you at best. You must also realise people are putting on an act like you, you're never able to perform a proper connection because of it, trying to befriend people irl is practically impossible and if achieved, it will be a relationship based on dishonesty

You could only make 'friends' by connections you make when you were a kid or younger, because every kid was low inhib and can form connections by the simplest bonds. But as people grow older, everyone is complex and don't seek any form of relationship unless it benefits them
 
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Kaz

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Nov 29, 2020
3,791
I'd like to argue against but maybe it's just fantasy. I've been alone so much that I can only project my feelings. When people spend time-bonding, it crates frustration to keep the act. Sooner or later the benefit is to be acknowledged as the real me and not be abandoned. Friendship is a form of love without sexual tension, important as any other feeling. Experiences are the best way since there will be situations where you have to count on each other. Aiming for common goals might create something better than the original intention. You keep creating memories together, no matter if they are good or not. Memories only you two can relate to and understand.
 
jaded jabble

jaded jabble

NEET
Nov 30, 2020
3,671
You're forced to become someone who you really aren't, socialisation is based on deception and hiding your true self in favour of society standards. You're put in a position of faking how you feel, what you believe, how you behave so people will tolerate you at best. You must also realise people are putting on an act like you, you're never able to perform a proper connection because of it, trying to befriend people irl is practically impossible and if achieved, it will be a relationship based on dishonesty

You could only make 'friends' by connections you make when you were a kid or younger, because every kid was low inhib and can form connections by the simplest bonds. But as people grow older, everyone is complex and don't seek any form of relationship unless it benefits them
Brutal
 
FeminismIsCancer

FeminismIsCancer

Marecel
Nov 30, 2020
1,377
My only friend is my cat. Cats have some sort of natural autistic vibe to them.
 
incelkingkong

incelkingkong

incel battle royale
Nov 28, 2020
3,048
I tried being nt when I was 14 and I failed so hard
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Copesville

Copesville

....
Dec 13, 2020
260
when youre subhuman, the only nt you'll be is a jester who gets no respect.
 
Fabio

Fabio

Incels
Dec 4, 2020
8,486
For me to fit with everyday normies I would have to be oscar-winning actor tier ngl.
 
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