anon1822
Banned
- Apr 5, 2021
- 323
Ok so this would technically work over a long enough period of time, but it would take so much effort and so much time and energy.
Here's what I'd have to do:
I'd have to not stay at home at all. Completely give up all my copes and everything I enjoy doing, and replace them with things outside the home. I'd have to go against everything I want to do and that brings me comfort and peace.
I'd have to do everything and anything where I could meet women. Dancing classes, language learning classes, sports where there are women, cooking classes, gym etc.... Basically 100% of my free time doing things outside the house.
And while there, I'd have to interact with every woman I can. Engage in conversation, ask for number, then contact them through the phone later and invite them to go out. I'd also have to research how to be interesting to people and what to say cause I'm aspie with an avoidant personality and am boring to normies since I can't just say my weird and funny thoughts. Also gotta research how to talk to random women in a way they'll want to talk to me, cause people don't want to talk when random guys approach them. Although I can't really imagine a way for one dude like me to just walk to a woman and talk to her in a way she actually wants to converse. I mean, just a random dude coming to you and talking to you, human beings don't interact that way, I can't imagine a scenario where a woman would actually be interested and not just humor me till I go away.
And so after a year or two of doing this and interacting with a lot of women, eventually I'd find one probably. I mean statistically, if I tried talking to 500 women, one would probably be interested.
But that's a different person entirely. That's not me. I don't have the willpower to live that kind of life, it's just too different from what I enjoy and am comfortable with. Not to mention that I'd have to actively fight every ounce of my being, force myself to do these things, fight anxiety and other things.
Wow, I'm so mentally ill. So many different mental illnesses like depression, anxiety, anhedonia, agoraphobia, avoidant personality etc... They have made me live a life so different from other people's that a normal life seems absolutely exhausting to me. I guess depression took a bigger toll on me than I thought. I thought I'm not depressed anymore, but that's merely in the context of me comfortably neeting in my own home. Damn, if only I didn't want sex so badly, I'd happily just rot forever. I'll still rot but I'll be less happy.
Here's what I'd have to do:
I'd have to not stay at home at all. Completely give up all my copes and everything I enjoy doing, and replace them with things outside the home. I'd have to go against everything I want to do and that brings me comfort and peace.
I'd have to do everything and anything where I could meet women. Dancing classes, language learning classes, sports where there are women, cooking classes, gym etc.... Basically 100% of my free time doing things outside the house.
And while there, I'd have to interact with every woman I can. Engage in conversation, ask for number, then contact them through the phone later and invite them to go out. I'd also have to research how to be interesting to people and what to say cause I'm aspie with an avoidant personality and am boring to normies since I can't just say my weird and funny thoughts. Also gotta research how to talk to random women in a way they'll want to talk to me, cause people don't want to talk when random guys approach them. Although I can't really imagine a way for one dude like me to just walk to a woman and talk to her in a way she actually wants to converse. I mean, just a random dude coming to you and talking to you, human beings don't interact that way, I can't imagine a scenario where a woman would actually be interested and not just humor me till I go away.
And so after a year or two of doing this and interacting with a lot of women, eventually I'd find one probably. I mean statistically, if I tried talking to 500 women, one would probably be interested.
But that's a different person entirely. That's not me. I don't have the willpower to live that kind of life, it's just too different from what I enjoy and am comfortable with. Not to mention that I'd have to actively fight every ounce of my being, force myself to do these things, fight anxiety and other things.
Wow, I'm so mentally ill. So many different mental illnesses like depression, anxiety, anhedonia, agoraphobia, avoidant personality etc... They have made me live a life so different from other people's that a normal life seems absolutely exhausting to me. I guess depression took a bigger toll on me than I thought. I thought I'm not depressed anymore, but that's merely in the context of me comfortably neeting in my own home. Damn, if only I didn't want sex so badly, I'd happily just rot forever. I'll still rot but I'll be less happy.