anon1822
Banned
- Apr 5, 2021
- 323
I would've been better off if I didn't have that match. I wasted too much time.
Ok, so I get the match, right? I write to her. Man, I wrote beautifully. I was impressed with myself tbh. And she seemed to like it. When she did respond she was pretty enthusiastic.
But it was all a lie. Idk if it was a scammer, or if she just had a premium account and swiped on everybody and then just chatted with 50 guys, but something was very fishy about this.
So here was the problem. Despite her seeming to love my messages, she answered in like 30 minutes or even an hour or more. For every message I sent, I had to wait like that. And she'd reply fairly briefly too. Enthusiastically, but very short. At times I had to wait for several hours for her to respond.
Anyway, because I'm such an autist, I got too excited despite telling myself I shouldn't. And I wasted basically a good chunk of yesterday and all of today on this.
Deleted the app. Well, now, after like my 7th try in total with dating apps, I'll never try again. Especially the last few weeks, I tried so hard, really hard. Waste of time, in this country at least.
Ohh, and you know what? Apparently in tiny, conservative countries, women are prudes (but whores for thugs and Chads). So they go on dating apps "to chat and make friends", or for super serious relationships with the intent of marriage. I know that happens in the west too, but here every chick is like that, I've seen people talk about it on forums and public group chats. Apparently sex is a shameful and hidden thing in this country. So hookups only happen with Chads and thugs (although most guys are thugs around here so I guess I'm just the odd one out). Actually, the women of these countries are incredible whores, very slutty, but they want their reputation pristine, so they only do it with men they really like. Guys like me are supposed to date seriously with the intent to marry. And how do they find those women? By being normies and getting them through friends, school, relatives. All aspects where I was ostracized and bullied.
Shit, and I was so nice to this broad, she liked it too. Would've been willing to put in months of courting for her. And it was all just a lie or some twisted game. What, did she swipe cause she thought it would be funny to have this guy orbit her while she ignores me for hours?
I hate this country, and I hate my health and looks. At this point I'll really be a virgin till 50.
Ok, so I get the match, right? I write to her. Man, I wrote beautifully. I was impressed with myself tbh. And she seemed to like it. When she did respond she was pretty enthusiastic.
But it was all a lie. Idk if it was a scammer, or if she just had a premium account and swiped on everybody and then just chatted with 50 guys, but something was very fishy about this.
So here was the problem. Despite her seeming to love my messages, she answered in like 30 minutes or even an hour or more. For every message I sent, I had to wait like that. And she'd reply fairly briefly too. Enthusiastically, but very short. At times I had to wait for several hours for her to respond.
Anyway, because I'm such an autist, I got too excited despite telling myself I shouldn't. And I wasted basically a good chunk of yesterday and all of today on this.
Deleted the app. Well, now, after like my 7th try in total with dating apps, I'll never try again. Especially the last few weeks, I tried so hard, really hard. Waste of time, in this country at least.
Ohh, and you know what? Apparently in tiny, conservative countries, women are prudes (but whores for thugs and Chads). So they go on dating apps "to chat and make friends", or for super serious relationships with the intent of marriage. I know that happens in the west too, but here every chick is like that, I've seen people talk about it on forums and public group chats. Apparently sex is a shameful and hidden thing in this country. So hookups only happen with Chads and thugs (although most guys are thugs around here so I guess I'm just the odd one out). Actually, the women of these countries are incredible whores, very slutty, but they want their reputation pristine, so they only do it with men they really like. Guys like me are supposed to date seriously with the intent to marry. And how do they find those women? By being normies and getting them through friends, school, relatives. All aspects where I was ostracized and bullied.
Shit, and I was so nice to this broad, she liked it too. Would've been willing to put in months of courting for her. And it was all just a lie or some twisted game. What, did she swipe cause she thought it would be funny to have this guy orbit her while she ignores me for hours?
I hate this country, and I hate my health and looks. At this point I'll really be a virgin till 50.
hate to break it to you but the truth hurts sometimes
